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He makes me sad

 Hi ,

Today I was not happy this morning. My hubby text me  :

Good morning sayang. Yes, so letih tak hilang lagi from the hectic few days. Badan pun lenguh2. I nak ambil EL hari ni.

And guess what I was so upset with him. I know there are things that I should not say it but I think he should realise that I cannot be treated this way. I can be a very understanding wife if he told me much earlier. I can wait patiently cos I know he is busy. 

And he wrote this too 

" So sorry tapi tak boleh hari ni. Actually hari ni patut ada lunch tapi he cancelled yesterday. So i janji kak ct i help her today. Esok i'm not around."

Wow another message that is so hurt . He make me more upset. Being the second wife was never easy but I try to understand his situation. I hope my husband will be more sensitive and fikir dulu sebelum cakap apa apa . Wife very understanding but it hurts and she can tahan. ( He should know her tolerance level is very high ).

Later I need to go out and get my things. 

I am not angry BUT my hubby needs to behave. He needs to understand that his second wife has feelings too even though  she does not demand much.


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